
With her first feature film, writer/director Molly Manning Walker explores many things. How To Have Sex is a tale about aimless teenage years spent blocking out worries about the future with boozy fun. It’s also about the ups and downs of teenage friendships and the wild highs and lows of partying. More seriously, it covers the societal pressures around the topic of sex and the importance of clear, explicit consent. All of this is rolled into the story of three friends going on holiday in Malia ahead of receiving their GCSE results. Tara (Kindling's Mia McKenna-Bruce) is the one member of the group who remains a virgin, and so she resolves to have her first sexual experience on the trip. It’s often questionable whether that’s what she really wants, though. It seems to be the influence of her friends and of a sex-obsessed society that pushes her in that direction. As the partying gets out of hand, what’s meant to be the “best summer ever” doesn’t turn out that way. Molly Manning Walker has spent most of her career as a cinematographer. Recently, she served as DP on this year’s wonderful British drama Scrapper, by another first-time feature director, Charlotte Regan. She’s made lots of short films, too, gradually building to writing and directing them. It’s clear she has a knack for it, as How To Have Sex has been well received at its various festival screenings. We sat down with Walker ahead of the film’s UK premiere to chat about the personal experiences that inspired it, casting the lead characters and why she got into cinematography…
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Where did the idea for How To Have Sex's story come from? So it’s like a collection of holidays that I went on when I was a teenager. I had one particularly strong memory of this blowjob on the stage that I started writing from. And why was it so important to you to create a story based around consent and the concept of that? I was assaulted when I was 16, and it’s something that’s really close to me, and I felt the need to talk about it. And whenever I talked about it it sort of like sucked the air out of the room, and so I think just to open up that conversation, really. That’s really good that you feel open to speak about it. Was there a moment where you felt more emboldened to do that? No, I think I was always quite like that as a teenager. And I think I found it weird that no one else wanted to talk about it. So what was the writing process like, this being your first feature? Is it much more of a challenge to do that with a feature length film than with a short? Yeah, it’s quite overwhelming. I wrote like the first 60 pages all in one go and then sort of figured out the last 30. Sort of set myself challenges to like write the next five pages over this amount of time and then see what comes out and delete something, and go back. When it came to casting with that main trio, had you seen them in anything before they auditioned for How To Have Sex? I’d seen Shaun [Thomas] in something before, and Sam [Bottomley]. Oh, I’d worked with Lara [Peake], so I knew she was good. I actually asked her on set. I was like, ‘Do you think you could play 16?’ knowing that the film was coming up and she was like ‘Nooo.’ But I hadn’t seen the others.
Molly Manning Walker. Credit: Organic Publicity